Okay, settle down guys! I know it’s the conversation we need to have. I’m glad that you’ve opened this page which means that you’re ready to learn about how to please your lady. If you have clicked in error, you can be read it and bookmark it, it can come in handy for you some other time.
For me, ‘Deolu Oniranu, it’s one of the most important tools to have in your arsenal. It’s not about just stuffing your meat pack down her ‘coochie’. Sex satisfaction also includes you giving your woman the best kind of sex you’re capable of, oral or penetration.
Not all sex has to be 30 minutes or so, pace yourself but we’re not here to discuss sex, we’re more concerned with how to give you a guide on how to ‘blow’ her mind, pardon the pun.
Here are a few pointers, I think could help you.
1. Study the female organ.
I’m sorry but this seems like a no-brainer, if you don’t have the address of your destination, you won’t know where to go. It’s never about plastering your tongue everywhere like a crazy person, it’s about knowing where to apply pressure and where to apply light tongue work. Oral sex is more of skill than hard work. Your good knowledge of the reproductive organ will go a long way in helping you achieve this.
2. Patience is key
It will take time like every other thing that you’ve learned and you’ve excelled at. It’s not the same day you learn how to fly a plane that you’ll fly to Hong Kong solo. Unless we’re in the Matrix, when knowledge is uploaded into your brain, then you won’t get it at the first try. I fell sick the next day after my first try. It will be very good if you take your time. With each spirited try, you’ll get better at it, trust me! The keyword here being spirited.
3. How to work with tempo
Take time to appreciate her body, no need to go aggressive on the pussy at the beginning. Imagine her pussy is an ice cream cup with multiple flavors. Take out time to savor the unique taste of the different flavors, imaginary in the top, bottom and the sides of the pussy. You can introduce the aggressiveness bit by bit as you go along.
4. Begin like this
A gentle tongue caressing of the total orifice would be ideal to begin with. Slowly, try to explore the sides of the pussy with slow tongue movement from the base to the top, rub softly over the clitoris. The tongue is wet organ and flexible, use the flexibility to your advantage, use it on penetrate the pussy gently, in and out and around.
5. Watch out for her body language
How she responds to your touch is very important, this will guide you as to what you should do more or do less. Sometimes, the one that hits home well will increase her reaction in terms of waist movement and moans. Pay attention to how she uses her body. If after massaging a spot softly, she begins to wind into your face more, it might be time for you to concentrate more on that.
6. Don’t go straight for the clitoris
Do you like kids? Imagine playing with a kid in an open place, knowing you can outrun him/her, you play around with the child till you grab the child and lift him/her up the air. Yea, that’s how you need to do with the clitoris; tease, suck and nibble on the pussy lips and the surroundings till you’re ready to give it the best treatment you can because it gives intense sensation, you don’t need to open with it but you’ll need it to close.
7. Switch techniques
There are other skills you can incorporate into your game such as licking, nibbling, kissing, sucking and sometimes soft bites. Try as much as possible to switch up your style, her body language will let you know how you’re doing. The sensation a flat tongue will give will be very different from a pointed tongue. Explore all these options and see how your partner responds to them.
8. Don’t forget the rest of her body
Her boobs are also very sensitive parts of the body, while you’re doing your business down there, remember to also use your hands to massage the boobs, especially with ladies that have sensitive nipples, soft squeeze can be very helpful.
9. Not all oral sex end with orgasm
This is where this big disclaimer comes in, you can be very skilled at it but you probably cannot make every lady climax with your mouth. Sometimes, it can be a very excellent preparation for penis penetration. So, don’t get worked up about this. It should be for enjoyment purposes.
10. Not everyone likes oral sex
Sex isn’t loved by everyone, so also oral sex isn’t for everyone. Don’t be discouraged that your partner doesn’t like it. It happens more often than you think. People get excited by different things, just like how some ladies like to be bitten before sex. It’s not your fault.
I hope this helps you.
