9 Things WOMEN Expect From MEN Before, During and After Sex

Women, especially in this part of the world, are not very expressive in the bedroom.

For most, it’s a social conditioning at work while others just feel that saying much will not change anything – so why bother?

Unfortunately, a lot of things are then left unsaid and this dampens the excitement of sex for them.

A simple solution for this would be for men to step up and do the right things so the women don’t need to go whining or ‘nagging’ (as female complaints are often tagged)?

Every bro who wants to give his woman the ultimate experience should do these 9 things:

1. Be creative in your foreplay. Women don’t like it when you get so predictive and execute the same foreplay routine with them each time you mean. The anticipation of a new thing will make it more rewarding. So approach sex creatively – kiss differently, touch her differently and have different sex positions …of course always serve her the one you think she likes the most. Variety is the spice of life!

2. Be ready to start with foreplay before gunning for the ‘vag’. Women take some time to be emotionally and physically involved in sex, hence the need for foreplay. It prepares their minds and brings them closer to foreplay. So don’t start by tearing off her pants and gunning for the vag.

3. Be open for cuddling after sex. Women love to feel loved and wanted so try to cuddle, at least for a while, after sex. You should not jump up immediately you ejaculate. Cuddling makes women feel girly, protected and wanted.

4. Be romantic before sex sometimes. Bluntness is appreciated sometimes, but nothing beats being a gentleman as you aim for sex. A candle-lit dinner, flowers, chocolate, a beach time or picnic in the park is not too much. SO do it once in a while.

5. Be crazy sometimes. You know, women may act like religious fanatics and prudes in public, but they want to get feisty in the bedroom. So a woman who does not drink or attend parties may be a beast in bed. What this means is that you should do some naughty things like spanking her ass or going really hard once in a while. You should however be ready to stop if she indicates otherwise.

6. Be willing to give raw and romantic compliments. Compliments are compliments to women, whether it is about her intelligence or her physical attributes. They love it and want it and crave it. SO if she gives you a wonderful blowjob, say it. If you love touching her boobs, say it. If you like the way she rides you, SAY IT!

7. Be clean before and after sex. Simply shower before and after sex, wear neat underwear and smell nice. If you expect her to ‘eat your nuts’ at least make it clean.

8. Be romantic on phone through SMSs and calls. It is not only face-to-face that you can say things to women. They love to hear it over the phone and read it as SMSs. So combine both and prep her for sex.

9. Be a good kisser. Kiss and make out before you get down and after you get down. It shows passion and women love it!

On a final note, you should always be bold and confident enough to take the lead because acting all timid and confused in the bedroom is not sexy.

You don’t have to be a bully, but take initiative and lead her on without being forceful – being shy means you’re not confident and that in turn means you are not sure she likes you.

But, if she doesn’t like you, would she be ready to get down in the first place?

No!