So, you know how to shag, but want to know it better, thrusts are good but clitoral stimulations are even better. The dicking combined with stimulating the clitoris will give an out of this world experience.
This is an article for ladies but also an expo for the guys, so guys, take time to read this well.
You might think just been on top or riding the dick should give some incredible orgasm. Sorry hun! Most of what they depict in movies or porn are as remote realistic as you think it is.
Clearly, we’re not all the same when it comes orgasm, riding a dick might be enough for orgasm, for others they might need more help them achieve orgasm, this help can be in form of hand clitoral simulation (touching yourself, rubbing the clitoris).
However, Julia Hamilton wrote in the Cosmopolitan couple of positions can help you.
1. The Bar Stool
Lots of women have their most reliable orgasms by leaning back and rubbing, circling, or tapping their clits. If this is you, then do that. Hop on a bar stool (or dresser or table) and spread your legs. The positioning gives you free rein to rub yourself as you please. This makes his thrusts inside you feel extra amazing, plus he gets to watch exactly how you like to be touched.
2. Riding the edge
Lie on your back with him flat on top of you, then straighten your legs and press them together with his legs on the outside. Roll your hips slowly and take … your … time. When one or both of you feels close, stop. Kiss, stroke his back, stare into his eyes, whatever stops the momentum. Repeat ’til you both are dying to finish — the point is to get so turned on that even if your clit is not being stroked in exactly the way you like it, orgasm is beyond inevitable.
3. The Grinder
If you’re a grinder (folded blanket, wanton pillow, innocent Teddy Bear), try recreating the feeling with, like, an actual human lover by mounting your dude, facing his feet and pressing your vulvic zone onto his leg. Both of you can thrust, while you rub against his leg. Is it getting hotter in here?
4. Tunnel of love
Assume the doggy style position, but instead of a straight-on pounding, have him slide his penis under you and across your clit. Lube up your hand and cup it around his penis to create sort of a makeshift vag/hand job thing, and he’ll be more than happy to service you this way.
We’re here to make you and your partner feel better, so how about you try out some of these and let us know if they worked well for you.
