We are long past the time where men consider the idea of performing oral sex on a woman strange and needless.
Considering the fact that women are more likely to achieve orgasm through oral sex as opposed to penetrative sex, a man who does not go down will probably have a partner who has never achieve orgasm with his help.
Knowing this, there are still a few things that will prevent men from giving their partners ‘head’. On a scale of manageable to major dealbreaker (Hell No!), here is a countdown of the top reasons why Nigerian men would rather not go down.
4. Not Attractive
The least likely reason, although a reason nonetheless, that men would not perform oral sex is attractiveness. Men are visual creatures and if he does not feel sexually attracted to you, it will affect how hard he will try to please you. If you expect oral sex from your man and he keeps saying ‘no’ it might be because he does not find you attractive enough. Oral sex is a selfless act and it takes a man who is willing to put your pleasure first to give you that special loving.
3. Intimacy level
Another major reason men do not perform oral sex is when they do not feel an adequate level of intimacy and connection with their partner. Some men are unlikely to go down on a woman they just met or on a woman they consider a stranger.
2. Will not be reciprocated
The second most popular reason Nigerian men gave for not wanting to perform oral sex is if it is not reciprocated. He is less likely to eat you out if you are not willing to give him a blow job. Most men are big fans of blow jobs, and he will not consider performing oral sex of you if he has not gotten one or the chance to receive is very unlikely.
1. Bad hygiene
The number one reason he will not go down on you is hygiene. If your vagina looks, smells or taste funky, he will absolutely not go near it with his mouth. In fact, about 95 percent of men we questioned have given ‘odour’ as their biggest oral sex dealbreaker.
