Sometimes, it is not just about what you do in the bedroom, but how you do it. Sure, you might be well versed on the perfect sex positions, but they will do no help if you do not understand what kind of sex will blow her away.
Here are three top ones.
1. Spontaneous sex
Remember, women love to feel sexually wanted and desired by their partners — and nothing says desire like spur-of-the-moment sex on the living room stairs. Unplanned, spontaneous love-making increases the lust factor by showing your partner that your attraction for her trumps everything else. Turn her on by telling her you need to have her right there and then, no matter the time or the place. And depending where you decide to get busy, the possibility of getting caught can also bring added excitement. In fact, a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine reported that having sex in public is one of the top fantasies among women.
2. Rough sex
Most women, every now and then, want to be sexually dominated by their partner. It appeals (once again) to her need to be sexually desired — so desired he can’t help but ravish her (with her permission, of course). Engaging in a little power play can be a fun and exhilarating way to explore kink in the bedroom. First and foremost, make sure she wants to play rough, and outline boundaries to ensure that you both feel safe. Then, pull a little hair, do a little spanking, and even bust out the blindfold and handcuffs if you’re feeling adventurous. Revel in the pure lust this type of sex is driven by, indulge in animalistic passion, and go ahead…get a little loud.
3. Sensual sex
This the type of sex that most men already assume women want. Candles, a relaxing bubble bath, full body massage, mood music in the background — it’s the stuff of a Danielle Steele novel. Start by clearing both your schedules, set a sexy environment, and let her know you’ve got all night to focus on her pleasure. Shut off your cell phones, turn off the TV, and anything else that will distract you from reaching new levels of intimacy with your lady. Remember that foreplay is the bread and butter when engaging in a night of sensual sex. So take your time, go slowly, and explore all of the erogenous zones on her body that so often go neglected in the bedroom. Be passionate and engaged, and don’t be afraid to tease her a little.
