Are there virgin men?
You could argue either way – but one would first have to decide if being a virgin means only never having had sex with a woman or it also includes never having masturbated too.
Anyway, no matter your definition of male virginity, one fact still remains that those who have not had sex before using believe some random myths about that most pleasurable physical-cum-emotional activity.
It will not be a lie to say that sex is one of the best things one could experience, especially if it’s with a person one has an emotional connection with.
Health experts have even proven that sex is good for a person’s general wellbeing, meaning it is actually recommended to have sex…frequently too.
Well, if you are one of those that have not experienced the joys of sex, here are 7 things you should know before trying it…
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Don’t expect to have 1-hour long erection – the average erection lasts only between 3-5 minutes. So all those men you see having sex for hours in porn videos are not ‘normal’. Some are edited footages while some are on performance enhancers, some of which are harmful
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A double condom will not give double protection – wearing two condoms to have sex will not increase your protection against diseases. In fact, the use of two condoms is a risk because the friction between the two can cause a tear and spill the sperm
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There is no time when you can have unprotected sex without the risk of STD or pregnancy – many are fooled by the myth that a woman in her cycle will not get pregnant… The truth however is that there are lower risks, but she still could get pregnant
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Your penis size is not as important as your skill – if you don’t have a micropenis which is less than 3 inches, then your penis is okay. All those men you see in porn videos with humongous penises are abnormal. Just learn to use what you have and you’ll be okay
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It is normal to have erectile problems on your first attempt – your first sexual encounter may not be as wonderful as you have dreamt it would be. As a matter of fact, many people have terrible first attempt, with weak erection and premature ejaculation occurring frequently
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Plenty foreplay is always good – don’t be pressured into jumping right into sex when the opportunity come. It is best to let your body go slow and approach sex with less pressure. Too much rush may lead to disappointment
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Masturbation is not a bad thing – don’t let people fool you that masturbation is unhealthy. Experts note that it is a healthy way to release your sexual tension and refreshes your semen, reduces stress lowers risk of prostate cancer. It can however become a serious problem where it becomes an addiction
The best thing you can do for yourself when you want to have sex the first time is to not try to impress yourself or your partner.
Be more exploratory than conquering and be certain to have a condom in the mix.
