Action speaks louder than words.”
This statement is very true, especially for men who find it easier to act it out than to actually say what they mean.
In love, this behavior comes to fore many times.
A woman is eager to know how the guy feels, what he plans and the destination of the relationship but the guy is locked up, saying a lot without saying anything.
However, a man’s emotional state is often discernible through the little things he does and doesn’t do.
If you are in a relationship with the mute type, here are 8 things to look out for to know if he is in for just s3x or wants more:
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He lets you into his circle of friends. Men are often very wary of mixing rom-ance with friendship and would keep a girl away from their close circle of friends until they are very sure. So, if he starts letting you into his circle, you’re sealing a spot in his heart…
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He lets you meet his family. The average man will never allow his family and his casual lovers to cross path. He keeps his bed warmer as far away as possible. But a man likes to show off a woman he is serious with, like a trophy. Inviting you to meet his family, or accompany him to family events means you’re about to become a member…
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He lets you keep your personal items in his house. It is not rare to see a guy asking a woman to pick every single item she owns before leaving after a visit. If this happens, it’s because he does not want your presence after you leave. But if you are allowed to leave clothes, undies, pictures and other personal items, then something is growing in someone’s heart…
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He lets you in on his plans. Men do not discuss personal affairs with every random girl. So if he lets you in on his plans and asks your opinions on such plans, you’re more than his bed warmer.
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He turns you into a companion. When a man turns you into a listening ear, talking to you for hours on random topics, without attempting s3x, he wants more than your body…
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He makes conversations about your personal affairs. The Sherlock Holmes in a man rears its head when he’s trying to latch onto a permanent partner and he begins to ask questions that are actually an evaluation of your compatibility. Those probing and queries are his way of weighing you…
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He lets you sleepover at short notice. Many women do not know this, but the average guy finds it annoying to get a sudden sleepover notice from a random s3x partner. The most likely response is an excuse to prevent the stay. If it gets to a point where you can just tell him “I’m coming over” and he says “Okay” then you’re on his permanent cards…
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He lets you have a key to his place. A man’s pad is his sanctuary, his hiding place, his shrine. He will never allow a random women to have easy access to such a hallowed ground no matter how beautiful she is. It is simply because giving you a key prevents him from picking random girls home, since you can be there. So, if a guy gives you a key, he’s ready to be loyal…
It must be noted however that a man being more accommodating is not necessarily an evidence of love.
This means that you must also approach these ‘signs’ with caution.
The only way to be very sure is to actually ask and hear from the horse’s mouth because love can be a chameleon sometimes…
