You can never overemphasize the importance of sex in a relationship.
Speaking candidly, sex is one of those things that will help keep the fire in your relationship burning.
This means your sexual prowess will go a long way in determining if you keep the woman for a long time or you’ll soon be on her list ‘exes forever’.
Have you wondered why people cheat – it is simply inadequate of non-satisfying sex!!!
So what are you going to do to keep your woman?
Here are 10 things that will help you:
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Try to give her an orgasm before you penetrate. Yes, your woman will love you if you make efforts to give her an orgasm before actual intercourse starts. You can achieve this with extended foreplay. Women are not so much crazy for penetration as they are with the orgasm and, truth be told, penetration only leads to orgasm a few times. So spend time exploring her body and give her an orgasm.
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Give her oral sex more often. This is related to giving her an orgasm. Because the average man gets an orgasm much faster than the average woman, the tendency is for the sexual experience to end before the women peaks, leaving her short-changed. You can correct this by giving her a lot of oral sex.
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Don’t be a quick-to-ejaculate guy. If you haver premature ejaculation or weak election issues, please try to see a doctor and address the situation quickly because women hate men who shoot off the sperm too quickly. The problem of early ejaculation is that you leave the woman in limbo – halfway between being aroused and a long way from orgasm. Unless you’re having a quickie, you have to last a while. If you can’t, get help.
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Use the power of words on her. Women appreciate the sound and sights of sex, meaning they like to hear you say sweet things to them as well as acts it out. Tell her how you feel being with her, being on her and being inside her. Tease her, chase her, compliment her and seduce her every time – simply turn her on with your words! Your silence is killing her vibe.
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Touch all her body parts with respect and love. Some men restrict their touches to the obvious erogenous zones like the vagina and breasts, ignoring other parts of the body. Fact it, women liked to be touched everywhere and anywhere. It is your duty to make every part of her body sing for you.
- Be patient and make her want penetration. This is also part of seduction. When you are sure you both want sex, you don’t jump in the sack and put the banana in the honeypot. Touch her and tease her until she wants you inside her with all of her willpower. Simply things like whispering naughty words into her ear, lightly licking her nipples, planting soft kisses on her inner thighs or breathing on her vagina turn her on much more. When she can’t wait no more, give it to her.
- Maintain eye contact. Always try to make love to her with your eyes as much as you can. It shows that you are confident and now ashamed of what you are doing. Look into her eyes as you work up a hot orgasm – it is a rewarding experience you both will love. So let eye contact be a permanent feature of your sexual encounters.
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Let her take control every now and then. It should not be about you always. Once in a while, let her be the magician doing the trick while you sit back and enjoy. Give her control of the positions, pace and every other thing. Motivate her with words and set her up to give you a performance with all her heart. She would be thrilled to see your body respond to her touches.
- Know your moves and accept hers. Don’t be a novice in bed. Yes, you should learn moves and be able to execute them. If you are stumped, be confident to ask her what she likes and allow her to show you. Ego has no place in sex. No matter how skilled you are, you must realise that nobody was born with all the sex skills and ideas and secrets of orgasm making. So learn and execute.
- Don’t abandon her after intercourse. You should not be the guy that walks away as soon as he achieves orgasm. In fact, you should hold her more closely when you’ve just had sex because then she wants to be held and loved. If you must sleep, sleep with her in your arms.
After my guy finished having sex wit me he use to live me like plate of trash n it hot me.
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